Haha!
Ok, candy I want, and apple, and banana, and watermelon....
You may eat everything, my baby--if you can digest them.
Everything is right, if you can digest. Everything is wrong, if you can not digest.
What is digest means? It means you can change everything into nothing, and then change nothing into everything.
I agree to your idea about practicing under the guidance of a teacher, so I never talk about any concrete method on this forum. There is no benefit of wholesaling ways on this forum, because the beginners can't digest them.
But I do not think that we have no ability to solve problem here.
Sure, I don't mean that we can solve the problem by give him lots and lots of method，then let him try them one by one.
I attempted to solve some friends' problems on this forum, and succeed many times. Of cause I can't use the forum to do that, but we can use QQ.
Then, in an alternating system, you can use your heart to touch his heart.
Then, if in luck, you can help him digest the candy, the apple...
Or, in unluck, he keeps eating anything others give him, now the class is over.
